Being desired is enjoyable to a point

From Mitch Stephens: "Just off phone w/No. 22 national hoop recruit Jabari Bird, who confirmed commit. to Cal. He said process draining and this is "giant relief" 

After a while, the situation loses its attractiveness and the participants just want it to be over. It certainly starts out fun and flattering with all sorts of coaches in pursuit but very few kids end up enjoying the never-ending communication bombardment.